Just passed my seventh anniversary without a drink

People have reacted well to the post I published on my sixth anniversary of being alcohol free. Thank you. I hope it is helpful. I think the acknowledgement that I still want to have a drink resonates with some and surprises others just starting out on their quest. I think they are hoping the feeling would go away. It does subside, but it takes a day-to-day effort of saying “I am not going to drink today.”

Below is a link to the post. Please feel free to offer your comments or questions. I am just another imperfect person battling his impulses, which in my case, when I failed in the battle put me in bad place. I will shoot straight with you on what has helped me, much of what I included in the post. Best wishes on your quest. Don’t let anyone tell you it is easy.

https://musingsofanoldfart.wordpress.com/2013/08/08/six-years-alcohol-free-but-still-want-to-drink/

 

 

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20 thoughts on “Just passed my seventh anniversary without a drink

  1. hey from a cybercafe i am not going to log onto wordpress to comment, as theres a good chance of virus and spammers getting into the accounts.. i am writing from inbox comment option.

    congratulations, that is so great, and by standing even taller, you are a true beacon in the  night for those who have taken those courageous steps.      i am heading to yesterdays post now.

    z

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  2. Well done, and milestones do count. I’ve been nicotine free for about 23 years, and for the first 15 or so, the craving was there almost all the time. I counted one day at a time, and eventually got myself to the point where the count was so high, that I couldn’t face having to start over.

    I’m proud of you!

  3. Stopping drinking takes incredible strength, both personally and socially. It’s impressive that you can manage social events OK. I remember going to someone’s home with my ex, a recovering alcoholic. The hosts asked if he wanted a drink. When he said no, they opened a beer and put it in his hand. I was always surprised by how many people would try to talk him into a drink, at various occasions like work events and family reunions. “What, you don’t drink? How about just one?” I think a lot of people don’t recognize alcoholism because they have a stereotype of “skid row drunks.” Their friends and co-workers are not like “those people”! Bravo to you, BTG, for 7 years.

    • Thanks for your support. At first it was difficult to be around drinking, now it more than fine. O’Douls non-alcoholic beer and tonic water diminished questions at parties or after work drinks. It’s funny in business, meeting people for a cup of coffee late in the day is more preferable now than drinks after work. Best wishes, BTG

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