We are all fixer uppers

In the age of the rise in social media and decline in truth, an underlying theme is overlooked. We are all fixer uppers. There are no perfect people, leaders, institutions, organizations, or companies.

Yet, being critical of other people and entities is increasing. I am not saying being critical is not warranted, but the volume and venom seemed to be turned higher than it should be.

When I see or hear hyper-critical commentary, I have a few thoughta running through my mind.

– The person doing the criticism is not perfect either. A good retort is “you are no day at the beach either.”

– The venom sometimes is mismatched with the accusation. The venom equates with someone who has killed your mother, when the accused transgression is much milder.

– The accusation sometimes is based on spurious information. The claim is so outlandish, people think where did you get that? Fake news permeates social media because it is like shooting fish in a barrel. This is a key reason the president deploys it so often.

– Even more reputable sources write evocative things. A retired editor once said the media is biased toward conflict. This is a key reason bad news gets far more airplay, when the frequency is by far reversed.

Yet, if you take away only one thing, please take away the following – give like you want to get. It is OK to say I do not agree with those points or find that criticism unfair. But, we do not need to take someone’s head off in so doing.

8 thoughts on “We are all fixer uppers

  1. Well said. I shared this to my FB page. I think it is also important to stop cherry picking for the one thing we don’t like about a person/concept and tossing the who tree out for that one bad cherry.

    • Linda, many thanks. Your last point is key. If people are looking to agree with everything a politician stands for, it will be a long wait. To your point, the longer someone serves, the more bad cherries there will be. Keith

      • Linda, I would hate to run for office with all of the dumb things that would serve as fodder from my past. I asked a colleague once who would have sent an email telling someone to do what he did several years ago? He said “you did.” Oops. Keith

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