Let’s honor the deceased war heroes, but do our best to keep them safe

On this Memorial Day holiday, we should rightfully and respectfully honor and remember our loved ones, friends, acquaintances and even strangers who fought in the many battles and wars. It is day of reflection of their sacrifices, whether they died in the conflicts or after they returned home. Too many, struggled with what they called “shell shock” after World War I (The Great War) and now call Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

A good friend just buried her twenty-seven year-old former Marine son, who was killed in a motorcycle crash. So, after worrying for several years while in Afghanistan, she has to grieve him for a bad accident. Loved ones bear a lot of angst worrying about their fighting children, fathers, mothers and loved ones. To die so young is a tragedy.

Yet, our leaders must go beyond the call to avoid sending our people into harm’s way. As said in the movie “Troy,” about the Trojan War, “War is old men talking and young men fighting.” Both men and women leaders must understand what war or conflict means. They must know that it is far more than winning battles. It is rebuilding countries and maintaining the peace through better relations. As an example, the following is a voice that was not heeded about these challenges.

In 2002, Jim Webb penned an op-ed in The Washington Post cautioning the US about going into Iraq. Who is Jim Webb? He is a former Marine, Secretary of the Navy and US Senator from Virginia. He has a law degree from Georgetown and has been a member of both political parties serving under multiple Presidents.

Two paragraphs from his pre-invasion op-ed piece are telling:

“The first reality is that wars often have unintended consequences — ask the Germans, who in World War I were convinced that they would defeat the French in exactly 42 days. The second is that a long-term occupation of Iraq would beyond doubt require an adjustment of force levels elsewhere, and could eventually diminish American influence in other parts of the world….

Other than the flippant criticisms of our ‘failure’ to take Baghdad during the Persian Gulf War, one sees little discussion of an occupation of Iraq, but it is the key element of the current debate. The issue before us is not simply whether the United States should end the regime of Saddam Hussein, but whether we as a nation are prepared to physically occupy territory in the Middle East for the next 30 to 50 years.”

It should be noted we have been in Iraq for over seventeen years, even longer in Afghanistan. Maybe, the chest beaters should listen to those who have fought and have experience rather than people who understand less what fighting and occupying a country mean. This was a crossroad moment in our history and we have not been the same since. Many thousands of American and allied troops died, even more Iraqi and Afghani troops and civilians died, our reputation has suffered and our debt is much higher. Plus, he was right on the money about American influence being impacted around the globe. Lying to allies and others about weapons of mass destruction has that kind of effect, not to mention misunderstanding the landscape.

I use this example as the words come from someone who knows, not someone who has a false bravado. One of the reasons so many Americans died in the Civil War, besides fighting on both sides, is some of the Union’s generals were chaotic and incompetent. People died unnecessarily because the union generals kept them in harm’s way. Per the Pentagon Papers, our leaders carried on a war in Vietnam long after they knew they could not win, so many Americans and huge amounts of Vietnamese died unnecessarily.

We must honor these men and women who risk their lives by getting this first part right. The best battle is one that is not fought, if it need not be. These people are brave people and deserve our respect and admiration, but leaders who pick or continue a fight that need not be fought or is sorely underestimated, is doing America and our allies a disservice. Both Democrats and Republican leaders have failed in this regard. It is too important to not fail, regardless of what party one serves.

9 thoughts on “Let’s honor the deceased war heroes, but do our best to keep them safe

  1. Note to Readers: I have written a version of this post on more than one occasion. The quotes from Jim Webb actually come from an earlier post. But, we cannot emphasize this enough. Patriotism is loving our country, but recognizing we must challenge our leaders when they need to do better. Just yesterday, I was chatting with my niece about the Dixie Chicks who were vilified for questioning the US invasion of Iraq at a concert. The were painted with an unpatriotic brush.

    They had the right to protest, plus in this case, they were dead-on accurate to protest. Who is more patriotic, a citizen question a hard decision, or a president who invades a country under false pretenses. By the way, a British commission reported that both Tony Blair and George Bush misled people and, we should not forget that VP Dick Cheney’s staff member Scooter Libby went to jail for outing a CIA operative because her former diplomat husband wrote an op-ed piece saying his recon on WMD was misused. He did not find anything.

  2. Well said Keith, well said.
    Your words brought to mind Sam Elliot’s brilliant performance as Brigadier General Buford in the 1993 film ‘Gettysburg’ with sardonic comments on politicians and the frustrations of those in middle command who can see disaster and try to avoid it.

    • Thanks Roger. Thanks for the link. My wife loves Sam Elliott. I walked around Gettysburg when I was traveling back after dropping my son off at college. One of the worst generals was McClellan and he had the gaul to run against Lincoln for president. Keith

      • I always wanted to visit Gettysburg.
        My ire is reserved for Kilpatrick, a butcher and sybarite of the first degree who steered clear of putting himself in the firing line while sending his own men to death, and survived the war to have a political career.

      • I will need to read more about Kilpatrick. Elliott has this likeability appeal he brings to any character. He played Bradley Cooper’s older brother in “A Star is Born,” and you immediately liked him.

      • Roger, you need to come states side. There are lots of Revolutionary War and Civil War battlegrounds near our home in Charlotte. My brother-in-law participates in a lot of Civil War reenactments. There is a great Civil War museum in Richmond at the old Tredegar manufacturing plant on the river. Keith

    • Thanks Jill. I agree about the line from Troy. I also like Bobby Darin’s song lyric about putting the leaders on a shelf to fight their own war. Keith

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