Mean girls need to go to detention according to Kathleen Parker

An important opinion was written by right leaning Washington Post columnist, Kathleen Parker, about adolescent acting elected female officials in Congress called “Opinion: The mean girls in Congress just can’t quit each other.” When we should be writing about policy solutions to real problems, we need someone like Parker to tell these eighth graders to go to detention and think about their behavior. Not to pick on the well behaved eighth graders, but a middle school counselor once told me, “generally speaking, eighth graders are not very nice people.”

Here are excerpts from Parker’s opinion piece which ran on December 4, 2021.

First, it was the Squad. Now, it seems, we have the Plastics.

I’m referring to the four-way kerfuffle that began when Rep. Lauren Boebert (R-Colo.) made an anti-Muslim remark about Rep. Ilhan Omar (D-Minn.). Then Rep. Nancy Mace (R-S.C.) tweeted her disapproval of Boebert, which prompted the inimitable Rep. Marjorie Taylor Greene (R-Ga.) to defend Boebert by smearing Mace as ‘the trash in the GOP conference.

…The Squad, you’ll recall, was the name given initially to four super-left Democratic women elected to the House in recent years: Omar, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez of New York, Ayanna Pressley of Massachusetts and Rashida Tlaib of Michigan. All are women of color and two, Omar and Tlaib, are Muslim, which may partly explain, but does not in any way excuse, why Boebert and Greene refer to them as the ‘Jihad Squad.

One needn’t be a great wit to create a nickname, but being witless is surely helpful to hurling racial and religious insults. As to the latter, Boebert and Greene proudly excel.

Which brings us to the Plastics, the infamous high school clique in the 2004 movie, “Mean Girls,” about a bunch of bullying young women in high school. The Twitter war that evolved among Boebert, Greene, Mace and Omar has all the markings of chick cliques gone wild. I wish it weren’t so, but what else to make of such underage behavior by some of the nation’s most visible females?

To think that the Republican Party was once home to greats such as Sen. Margaret Chase Smith of Maine. Among other achievements, she was the first public figure to challenge Wisconsin Sen. Joseph McCarthy’s anti-communist fearmongering in her 1950 “Declaration of Conscience” speech. Just imagine, if we still can.

That said, today’s four gladiators aren’t equally errant in the ways of manners and protocol. Omar was the victim of more than one inexcusable racist, Islamophobic attack by Boebert. The first came when Rep. Paul A. Gosar (R-Ariz.) tweeted an anime video showing him stabbing Ocasio-Cortez in the neck. As the House considered censuring Gosar for his appalling judgment, Boebert tried to defend the indefensible, saying that stripping Gosar of his committee assignments would be unfair since Omar “the Jihad Squad member from Minnesota” sits on the Foreign Affairs Committee ‘while praising terrorists.

Later, Boebert told a story at a private event about boarding an elevator when a Capitol police officer came running toward her. When Boebert realized Omar was standing nearby, she quipped to the officer: ‘She doesn’t have a backpack, we should be fine.

Mace, who might have kept her heels glued to the high road, then entered the fray to defend Omar following Boebert’s tasteless elevator remark. But you know what they say: Never wrestle with pigs. They have more experience in the mud and, besides, they like it there.

So along came Greene, no slouch in the mudslinging department. A devout Trumpian, she alternately praised the former president and called Mace “the trash of the GOP conference.” Those would be fighting words without what happened next, but it got far worse. Greene accused Mace of not being a true conservative because, she claimed, Mace is ‘pro-abort.

…Greene’s lucky she escaped with a mere counter-tweet from Mace instead of something more fitting a woman who was the first female graduate of the Citadel. Mace is, indeed, pro-life with exceptions for rape and incest, perhaps because she is, herself, a rape survivor.

Then something rather splendid happened. Greene tweeted at Mace, ‘your out of your league.’ Mace simply tweeted back the correction: ‘you’re.

Anyone who will plant a flag for “you’re” instead of “your” as a contraction of ‘you are’ has my undying admiration and loyalty. (I have a cartoon in my office in which a smart dame says to her courtier: “You had me at you’re.”)

Suffice to say, the ‘conversation’ devolved from there, or, depending on one’s point of view, became even more delicious. Mace ended the exchange (for now) with ‘Bless her f—— heart,’ which is clear enough, but usually expressed more modestly by Southerners as simply ‘Bless her heart.

Bless all their little hearts, I say, and the wee spirits that guide their fingers across keyboards in a land called Twitter. May they all receive a biography of Margaret Chase Smith as a gift for the holidays, and may they begin their New Year’s resolutions accordingly.

Note, I only edited a few paragraphs for brevity, but the entire article and can be found below. I love her reference to Margaret Chase Smith, as that is what political courage looks like. I think Parker defines clearly what these other folks are doing. I did call Rep. Mace about ten days ago and thanked her on speaking out, as it showed courage to be critical of poor behavior in her party when the party leaders passed on that role. By the way, being the first female graduate of The Citadel showed courage, in and of itself.

One final note, we should always remember if someone wants to be taken seriously, then he or she should act like a serious person. Name calling, labelling, and being snide is not conducive to what a serious person would do. And, it certainly is not what we should be getting from our elected officials. We deserve more.

17 thoughts on “Mean girls need to go to detention according to Kathleen Parker

  1. Note to Readers: In an age where school officials must take social media threats seriously, for elected officials like Gosar, Cawthorn, Broebart, Taylor-Greene, et al, to say or send out hateful remarks or pictures, they should not be surprised when people react negatively toward their words or actions. Gosar gave a toddler response when he said he did not mean it when he sent an anime with his avatar killing and beheading an avatar of AOC. The same person, who said he did not mean it, resent the anime after being rightfully censured by the House. That would be a definition of no remorse. We deserve better than this as citizens. If they don’t know this, then they need to resign and leave the job to serious minded folks. I don’t agree with everything “The Squad” stands for or much of what Mace stands for but I would rather discuss where we differ than name call or defame them. That is how it needs to be done.

    • VJ, Kavanaugh’s testimony is a great example. He was reeling after the morning’s testimony. Then, the “handlers” told him (and enlisted Lindsey Graham) to attack which is what he did. The same thing happened with Clarence Thomas, but was even more staged with his testimony on prime time, where only one of his accusers testified during the day. A second accuser was never allowed to testify as she waited to do so. So, because of beligerent tactics, two of our SCOTUS are likely guilty of sexual misconduct. This does not sit well with me for some reason. Keith

  2. I’m sad and disappointed that these are the types of people America “elects” to lead us. This is what makes me sometimes think elections are rigged – good, thoughtful, kind-hearted, hard-working American people in their right mind wouldn’t really elect these mean, divisive, petty folks, would they?

    • Rose, the problem is gerrymandering. With no viable opponent from the other party, an extreme thinker can beat a more moderate candidate in a primary. With fewer voters, a rabid base can carry the extremist to victory. Keith

  3. We do deserve more. However, there’s a segment of the population that don’t even understand that more exists. “There” the ones who also don’t get the “you’re” reference, if you know what I mean. (I’m so funny, I stink.)

    • Linda, well said. In these days of yelling and name calling as substitutes for debate on sports, entertainment or news shows, it is hard for many to realize that is not how we are supposed to act. Keith

      • This may sound silly, but I trace much of this lack of decency to the mouth of Roseanne Barr. What came out of that woman’s mouth in the name of comedy desensitized even normal TV viewers into thinking it was okay to treat other people vilely. (I know there’s no single cause for the mess we’re in, but her TV show coincided with a huge fall from grace in America.)

      • Linda, well she certainly was a cog in the wheel of denigration. “Rugrats,” “The Simpsons,” sports taunting, Don Rickles, Newt Gingrich et al, all contributed, as well. Keith

      • Charles Sumner was eventually to die from the injuries sustained. The House virtually stood by. Brooks received numerous fresh canes from southerners.
        The resonances with these days run deep.

      • Roger, those canes were paid for by landowners with a lot of human assets doing their bidding. Perpetuating their profits on the backs of slaves was essential to the pre-war south. Keith

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