On my first Father’s Day many years ago, my wife gave me “Life’s Little Instruction Book” compiled by H. Jackson Browne, Jr. I was leafing through it today as it lay on an upstairs table near my computer. Here are few of the 511 pearls of wisdom that can be found therein.
#454 – Show respect for everyone that works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
#276 – Patronize local merchants even if it costs a little more.
#186 – Be insatiably curious. Ask “why” a lot.
#158 – Pray not for things, but for wisdom and courage.
#107 – Smile a lot. It costs nothing and is beyond the price.
#246 – Wave at children on school’s buses.
#426 – Share the credit.
#375 – Take charge of your attitude. Don’t let someone else choose it for you.
#127 – Wear the most audacious of underwear under the most solemn business attire.
#58 – Always accept an outstretched hand.
Many of the above are not among the usual instructions. The first two remind me of what we need to do more of in today’s pandemic. Of course, the more startling one is my favorite about “audacious underwear.”
It reminds me of the a staid company I worked for, where the very dignified manager of a department had an “underwear optional” day for the troops. Going commando was never so much fun.
The last one is hard, but should not be. Why don’t we want to accept help? After 9/11, America’s approval ratings were at its highest. Other countries wanted to help, but we did not accept it very well. That was unwise.
The one I gravitate to the most and often advise is a variation of don’t cede your power to someone else. Take charge of your attitude. You are not offended, if you do not take offense.