About a dozen years ago, my wife and I got to see a concert where two old favorites regaled us for a wonderful night. I remember the evening to this day. Don McLean was the closing act and he is always worth the effort with songs that go well beyond “American Pie.” Yet, just as entertaining, was a tiny Jewish girl who came on stage by herself and mesmerized us – Janis Ian.
Many women (and men) within ten years of my age will know her immediately for her huge hit which told the unvarnished truth she learned “At Seventeen.” This song spoke to so many as most of us are not blessed with model like looks and effervescent charm. And, when you are not, you face a different set of challenges. Yet, the other part of this “truth” is even when you are born with looks and charm, you need to be able to find and be yourself, because looks don’t last forever, even with Botox. Here are a few lyrics, which ironically were penned by two men, Kenny Gamble and Leon Huff.
I learned the truth at seventeen
That love was meant for beauty queens
And high school girls with clear-skinned smiles
Who married young and then retired
The valentines I never knew
The Friday night charades of youth
Were spent on one more beautiful
At seventeen I learned the truth
And those of us with ravaged faces
Lacking in the social graces
Desperately remained at home
Inventing lovers on the phone
Who called to say, “Come dance with me”
And murmured vague obscenities
It isn’t all it seems at seventeen
…To those of us who knew the pain
Of valentines that never came
And those whose names were never called
When choosing sides for basketball
It was long ago and far away
The world was younger than today
When dreams were all they gave for free
To ugly duckling girls like me
Yet, if you download her body of work or purchase a greatest hits CD, you will find a number of enchanting songs. Once you do, pour yourself a glass of your favorite wine, light a few candles or stoke the fire and listen. Here is an excerpt from “Between the Lines” written by Janis which speaks to how people do not know what to say to each other after the games and banter end.
There’s never much to say between the moments of
Our games and repartee
There’s never much to read between the lines of
What we need and what we’ll take
There’s never much to talk about or say aloud
But say it anyway
Of holidays and yesterdays, and broken dreams
That somehow slipped away
In books and magazines of how to be and what to see
While you are being
Before and after photographs teach how to pass
From reaching to believing
Another one of her classics, is called “Jesse” by Columbier and Michel Jean Pierre, about her loneliness over her lover Jesse’s departure. The pacing of this song is emblematic of her style. She is never in a hurry and she has a voice that soothes, as well as portrays her pain. So, you can find the words amid the tune.
Jesse, the floors and the boards
Recalling your step
And I remember, too
All the pictures are fading
And shaded in grey
But I still set a place
On the table at noon
And I’m leaving a light on the stairs
No I’m not scared – I wait for you
Hey Jesse, I’m lonely, come home
Many people likely do not know Janis Ian. My older brother was the first person who turned me onto Janis Ian. She followed in the tradition of similar singers like Joan Baez and Judy Collins and a contemporary Phoebe Snow. If I had to find a more current performer, I would liken her to Traci Chapman. But, I think her words and music resonate with people as she would never be considered a glamorous person. In fact, when she walked on stage with her guitar, she came in from one side and walked all the way to the other side and exited the stage. This shyness was characteristic of her and her music.
A link to Wikipdedia will help tell her tale. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Janis_Ian
So, if you do not know her music, you are in for a treat. Every 17 year old girl (and boy for that matter) should listen to “At Seventeen.” If you know her, please use the opportunity to revisit her songs. And, remember the glass of wine and the candles.
Thank you for this connection to Janis Ian’s music. Deeply beautiful💓
Thanks LaDonna. We enjoyed her opening act just as much as Don McLean’s show. Given your profession, Ian’s words are important truths to speak of and learn from. These days, too many people compare themselves unfavorably to the dress-up version people put on social media. Keith
I truly agree with what you have said here. There is so much more instantaneous access to non realistic imagery that is harmful. I do see this impact.
LaDonna, I am sure this is too common a conversation. Best regards. Keith
I have her CD Between the Lines, and I love every song on it! I stumbled upon it while in college in the 90s when we would order through Columbia House or RCA for CDs! 🙂
We are the same way. Every song is worth listening to. Thanks for sharing your story. When Don McLean came on stage, he referenced Ian’s earlier performance saying “she can sing her hind-end off.” Keith
At Seventeen is such a beautiful song. It took a bit more maturity to realize that “marrying young and retiring” may not have been the most enlightened path.
Janis, that line is interesting to reflect upon. It also reveals how high school predictions vary from the future. One of the poignant movies is “Peggy Sue got Married” which allows the title role to explore that very issue. Keith
I had never heard of Janis Ian or her music, but tonight, on your recommendation, I listened to a couple of her songs and I was so glad I did! Thank you for the recommendation, Keith!
Jill, I am so glad you did. Her words resonate and she has written far more good songs than her magnum opus. Keith
PS – If you like Ian, check out Phoebe Snow or Joan Baez.
Agreed! I well remember Joan Baez and liked a few, but not all of hers. I will check out Phoebe Snow, for the name doesn’t ring any bells. Thanks!
Jill, my favorite of Joan Baez’ is “Diamonds in the Rough.” As for Phoebe Snow, check out “Poetry Man.” Keith